Although over the years one question has always been prevalent. Why is my silver jewellery turning different colours? To some it turns brownish yellow and to others black. They follow up with the question that if we are selling genuine silver why is it changing colours?

Do not worry as through this blog post we will explain to you what causes the change in colour. We will get into a bit of secondary school chemistry, don’t worry there is no exam, and explain in simple terms what is causing the change in colour.

What causes Silver to Tarnish

We should start by explaining that pure silver by itself is softer than other metals and that is why it is used in jewellery making. It can be easily moulded to any form or design. Although, to make it stronger and more durable to stand the test of time several other metals are added to it.

Sterling silver is made up of 92.5% silver and 7.5% other metals. Whereas Copper is the most predominant metal in the other metals.

When the other metals mixed with silver react to moisture and sulphur in the air it causes tarnishing in silver. Silver tarnishing takes place faster in climates that have high humidity and high air pollution levels.

In your home, beauty products like perfume, deodorant, and hairsprays can all contribute to silver tarnishing. The metals react to these beauty products.

The silver tarnishing will look like a thin layer of corrosion on the metals looking like a dull grey or black coating. Ironically when silver tarnishing occurs it protects the inner metal layers as it only reacts with he outer layers.

The chemical name for silver tarnishing is silver sulphide. Silver sulphide is from the sterling silver reacting with sulphuric compounds in the atmosphere.

The change in colour of the silver jewellery happens in a few weeks or a few months depending on the environment they are placed in.

Here is where you can skip the chemistry part. Tarnishing is caused by hydrogen sulphide (H2S) which reacts with the copper to cause the silver discolouring. This process is called sulphuration. Sadly, hydrogen sulphide is found in everyday items.

Sulphuration is caused by:

• Different skin acidity (or PH) – caused by types of foods eaten and medication
• Type of water where you live
• Contact with certain cosmetic products like hair spray, perfume, deodorant etc
• Where the silver jewellery is stored

Steps to prevent tarnishing

Here are some tips, on how to keep your sterling silver jewellery from tarnishing:

• Safely store your jewellery in dry places avoiding damp places like bathrooms and kitchens
• Wear your jewellery last. Jewellery should be worn when you have already used make-up, perfume, and other beauty products
• Remove your jewellery when you wash clothes with harsh detergents, go swimming and any other water-based activity
• Remove your sterling silver if you are sweating a lot.
• Store the items in jewellery boxes and airtight containers
• Wash dirty silver sterling with warm soapy water and a cloth. Rinse with clean water and then pat dry it.
• Wear the jewellery as often as possible.

Treating tarnishing in silver

Now that we have learnt what tarnishing is and how to prevent it, let’s take the next step would be to restore tarnished silver. Luckily in some cases can be done at home while in other cases you would require help from professionals

The little Jewellers

When the tarnishing is extreme, and you have tried local methods and it hasn’t worked then it’s time to go to a professional. We at the Little Jewellers are well known in treating tarnished silver. We do it quickly and efficiently.

Washing detergent

If your silver has been mildly tarnished, then using a washing detergent is your best bet. Submerge the silver jewellery in warm water that has washing detergent and rub it gently in your fingers. Afterwards you rinse the jewellery thoroughly in clean water and pat dry it.

Aluminium foil and baking soda

This is used when the tarnishing is a lot. To do this, line a bowl with aluminium foil and place the jewellery in the centre of the bowl. Pour boiling water in the bowl and then add baking soda a spoon full at a time until you see the tarnish lift of the jewellery. Upon completion rinse thoroughly and then pat it dry.

Toothpaste

By using a soft cloth that has toothpaste, gently rub the silver jewellery. The next step would be to rinse with clean water and then wipe it dry with a soft cloth.

Conclusion

As you can see tarnishing isn’t a big problem that many of you think it is. It is natural for sterling silver to change colour after some time. To keep your silver looking bright and shiny you can follow the tips written over here.

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Like most people, you are probably convinced that buying new clothes will just be the remedy you need to solve your fashion crisis. But ever stop to think through how new clothes only serve as a temporary solution?

Why not try accessorizing and coordinating your outfits with silver jewelry and watch it do wonders to your look? Yes, jewelry and fashion go hand in hand. Jewelry enhances natural beauty, makes an outfit pop, and even boosts confidence.

However, good outfit-jewelry coordination is no walk in the park. It requires skill, a good eye, and precision. Otherwise, unmatched jewelry can make any look seem off and busy. If you are looking to make informed decisions when you accessorize, you are looking in the right place. Here is how you can coordinate your jewelry beautifully and to the fullest.

1. Consider The Occasion

To be a pro-jewelry coordinator, you should address every occasion differently when accessorizing with jewelry. Whether you are headed to work, church, or a party with friends, let the occasion dictate your choice of jewelry. Below is a brief overview on how you can do that.

• Work or Professional Business

When heading to work or any other professional business, go for a more conservative, toned-down no-nonsense look. Power suits and official outfits pair well with pendant-style necklaces, stud earrings, and simple understated bracelets. Avoid hanging earrings or thick bracelets and necklaces because they seem unprofessional.

• Weddings

A wedding is a jovial and special formal affair that gives you a platform to look as glamorous as you please. Go for tastefully bold jewelry that flatters your features to go with your outfit. You can also wear coloured stone jewelry that matches the wedding theme colours.

Experiment with different looks to know what works for you. As long as at the end of the day, you give off a splash of sophistication with a balance of dazzling glamour.

• Casual Hangouts

With casual hangouts, you pretty much have the freedom to wear whatever you please. However, simple pieces like pearls do not pair as well with jeans and t-shirts. Opt for sterling silver chains, earrings, necklaces, and bracelets to compliment such a look.

• Daily wear

The kind of jewelry you wear every day is predetermined by your fashion sense and lifestyle. Do you like dressing up? Are you an outdoor or more of an indoor persona? Are you athletic? Go for more subtle simple jewelry if you are always undertaking manual tasks because they tend to be more comfortable as you go on with your day.

• Date Night

Picking out the ideal jewelry for a date can be tricky. You want to come off as elegant and classy without looking like you tried too hard. Choose jewelry that accentuates your features. Hoop earrings will frame your face while a nice subtle necklace will draw attention to your collarbone. Wear just enough jewelry, too much will overload your look and draw attention away from you.

    2. Consider Your Outfit

As important as it is to pick an outfit that suits your body type, it is equally necessary to choose jewelry that pairs and matches the outfit. Below are a few suggestions on how you can do that.

• If you are looking to make a statement, choose one piece that stands out and make it the focal point that defines your look. That way, your outfit will seem harmonized.
• Avoid bold statement jewelry when wearing heavily patterned outfits. Preferably opt for more subdued simple jewelry to elegantly bring out your look.
• For simple and plain outfits, opt for more creative fine jewelry to amp and transform your look. Adding a necklace to plain t-shirts and tops defines and makes your look more interesting.
• Tank tops and short sleeved clothes look good with bracelets and watches. They show off your arms and make your look even more vibrant.
• Long sleeved clothes look super cute with rings because they draw attention to your hands. However, unless you are planning to roll up your sleeves, avoid wearing bracelets with long-sleeved clothes.

   3. Choose Jewelry that Flatters Your Features

Did you know that you use jewelry to control how people see your beauty? Yes, your choice of jewelry will determine whether you look fuller, thin, pale, or cheerier. Are you wondering how you can use jewelry to enhance your beauty? Here are a few tips that can come in handy.

• If you are tall, go for shorter chains and chokers that do not go beyond your torso to avoid looking even taller and vice versa. If you are petite, avoid large chunky jewelry and go for minimally designed medium sized jewelry that will blend better with your look.
• While bracelets add an elegant touch to any look, they can also enhance beauty when accessorized right. Thin delicate bracelets will look good with people with a petite structure while the thicker or layered bracelets look good with people with larger figures.
• Wear jewelry on the parts you want to draw attention to. A sterling silver necklace will draw attention to your neck flattering your collarbone making you look classy and sophisticated. Earrings on the other hand frame your face and draw attention to your facial features.
• When choosing rings, let the shape of your fingers dictate the type of ring you choose. Wide bands will pair well with people with long elongated fingers and vice versa.

Final Thoughts

At the end of the day, jewelry reflects your personality and personal style. Now that you have learnt how to coordinate your jewelry with your outfit, get your creative juices flowing, experiment with the different accessories, and get what works for you. What are you waiting for? Coordinate your jewelry like a pro and watch it do justice to your whole being.

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Proposals can be a lot of pressure, don’t you think? Imagine not knowing how your partner takes your proposal, so you are left to wonder; will he or she say yes? Is it the correct timing? How soon is too soon anyway?

But worry not, we are here to put your fears to rest. Today we have compiled a short list on everything you need to know before and while proposing for either men or women. And yes, it is the 21^st century, women can propose too. But first, here is a brief history of marriage proposals.

History of Marriage Proposals

Traditionally, most marriages were arranged because they were seen as a legal transaction. Dowry arrangements were made and accepted into the bride’s family. The woman had little to no say about the matter. This implies that the bride and groom were mostly strangers bound to live the rest of their lives together.

As time marched on, industrialization changed people’s perspective on marriage. People no longer viewed marriage as a political and financial or legal transaction but as an individual decision towards happiness. During this age of proposals, a man who fell helplessly in love with a woman would first seek the permission and blessing from the woman’s father.

The man would get down on one knee while proposing to his lover as an act of devotion and admiration to his woman. He would then present her an engagement ring as a symbol of his love, dedication, and a promise of future marriage.

In Scotland, Finland, and England, a woman was only allowed to propose to her lover precisely on 29^th February of a leap year. In fact, if a man were to reject this proposal in Finland, he was obliged to buy the woman enough clothes as compensation. How fascinating, right?

Fast forward to the 21^st century, notions of what a proposal ‘should be’ are slowly getting re-structured. Some couples have conversations about marriage before the proposal while others prefer the element of surprise. Proposals are now a big show stopping event as most people use it to show off their romance and creativity.

When is a Good Time to Propose?

How can you tell it is the right time to propose? How soon is too soon? Below are a few factors to look into for you to weigh out whether your timing is perfect or rushed.

• Are you past the romantic “honeymoon” phase? During this lovey-dovey phase, one’s mind is clouded with the illusion of love. You can barely see any red flags no matter how hard they screamed in your face. We do not advise getting engaged during this phase because you are yet to know each other’s true colours.
• How well do you get along? Lately, it does not matter how long you have known each other to get engaged. Most people lack common relationship goals and expectations despite years together. If you and your lover see eye to eye, why not go for it?
• Have you had conversations about having a future together? Most people tend to be commitment phobic and will spend years with someone only to disappoint them So talk about your future and seek your partner’s opinion about marriage to be sure you want the same end goal.

Proposal Tips for Both Men and Women

Planning a proposal can be overwhelming and confusing yet most people want it to be absolutely perfect and memorable. Are you wondering how you can plan for the perfect marriage proposal? Below are a few tips.

1. Make Sure You are on the Same Page

Talk about marriage with your partner prior to the proposal. Find out whether your partner is all about marriage or against it. Do not beat around the bush, be direct. Talk about marriage, your opinions, and expectations so you both know what you are getting into. If you are a bit shy about bringing up this crucial topic, you can start off by asking your partner’s opinion about a friend that recently got engaged or ask for their opinion on a wedding you both visited.

    2. Let the Family Know Your Intentions

Have a chat with your partner’s parents about your plans to propose to their child. Even though most people consider this “old-fashioned” it is important and shows that you respect them. If your partner has a close relationship with his or her family, it would be nice to let them in on your plans.

   3. Buy the Ring in Advance

An engagement ring is a must have accessory while proposing. If you are trying to figure out what kind of ring your partner would love, take a sneak peek at your lover’s jewelry wish list or ask his or her friends for help. However, engagement rings can be costly, you need to save in advance. Browse through different online jewelry stores to find one with the best offer.

  4. Have a Photographer to be On Standby

A picture is worth a thousand words. Whether you ask your friend to take pictures or hire a photographer, pictures are priceless because they capture raw moments. Especially when the proposal is a surprise. In a scenario when you have a private and intimate proposal, you can opt to have an impromptu engagement photo shoot.

 5. Consider Whether to Do it Publicly or Private

Most people tend to overlook this proposal detail. Different people are wired differently and as much as it is flattering to propose in a public setting, some people may take offence. Some people thrive in being the spotlight but others like being invincible and private.

Consider your partner’s personality and preferences to determine whether you propose privately or publicly. If you are unsure, compile different YouTube proposals and social feeds, pretend you just bumped into them then listen and watch out for your sweetheart’s reaction.

6. Choose an Ideal Location

When it comes to choosing the ideal location, preferably go for a place that will always be there so you can go back even when you are old and gray. From an outdoor picnic to a fancy restaurant dinner, choose a location that is in tune with your budget.

  7. Have a Bulletproof Backstory

If you insist on having an element of surprise, hide the engagement ring, develop a decoy story, and do not let the secret slip. Make up a foolproof story, one that your partner will not notice you are playing a trick on them.

But also, ensure that whatever story you come up with, your lover is dressed to the occasion. Imagine the embarrassment he or she would have to endure if they showed up under dressed to plan some fancy setting, to make up a good solid story.

 8. Make it Meaningful and Get Personal

No matter how involving and overwhelming planning a proposal can be, do not lose sight of the bigger picture. You are taking big steps to being with the love of your life, be romantic and authentic to make it special. You can jot down to the highlights of your proposal to something you can recreate anniversaries to come.

When You Know You Know

At the end of the day, no man is an island. So, if you found someone you mutually want to spend the rest of your life with, you are definitely lucky. What are you waiting for? Get your affairs in order, plan that proposal, and shoot your shot.

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We have all seen or heard stories of relationships that have fallen apart despite massive wealth. So if you are bummed for not having enough money to impress your lover, worry not. At the end of the day, it is the time and the little thoughtful deeds that count, no amount of money can make up for that.

Are you now wondering how to pull off grand inexpensive deeds that will blow your lover’s mind away? You are looking in the right place. Today we explore cost effective endless possibilities you can try so as to make your partner happy.

1. Plan a Budget Friendly Date

Planning a cheap date does not make you a cheapskate lover. Quite the contrary, it makes you sweet and thoughtful because you are willing to try to pamper your lover in spite of your limited finances.

Most people underrate cheap dates and assume them to be of bad quality or boring. Not knowing that you can still have the capacity to make your date fun and memorable, all you need to do is to choose your date activity wisely. Below are a few ideas you can choose from to have a beautiful budget friendly date.

• Go for a picnic or hike. If your partner is laid back, then picnics are a great choice, just pick the ideal picnic spot. It could be a rooftop if you are living in an apartment where you can enjoy the breathtaking view of the city and stargaze. Alternatively, when your partner is a bit more adventurous and exploratory then a hike is an ideal fun activity.
• Stay on the loop so you can take advantage of happy hours and restaurants offering meal deals. Do your research and be informed of nice places with good deals.
• How about a game night? Play chess, poker, monopoly or any other game you both love. You can even invite your friends for a double date so you can spice up the game.
• Stage a candle lit dinner at the comfort of your home. If you are a good cook, make your lover a sumptuous meal and create a romantic setting with candles, and nice music playing in the background. You can be assured that your partner will love and appreciate you going the extra mile. Are you a bad cook? No worries. You can still pull off this dinner; all you have to do is order take out of each of your favourite meals then set the romantic tone, easy-peasy.
• Visit the museum or the art gallery. Is your lover an art enthusiast? Or perhaps she loves history and culture, then visit the art gallery and museum for an informative, fun, and memorable time.

 2. Get a Thoughtful Over Flashy Gift

Browse through YouTube tutorials as well as different Pinterest hacks to learn tactics of making DIY gifts like a memorial scrapbook, picture album, or handmade beaded bracelet or anklet. You could also check out different online jewellers, identify one with the best offers then get your lover nice customized silver jewellery. It does not matter whether your lover’s love language is gifts or not, gifts make someone feel loved and special.

However, most people are completely ignorant of gift giving etiquette. Some pay tons of money for a gift their partner does not even like. So yes, the most ideal gifts that will make a good impression on your lover are thoughtful over flashy. Here are a few unspoken rules of gift giving etiquette that will come handy while gifting your lover.

• Avoid self-improvement gifts like weight loss books and work out equipment.
• Stay within your budget and actually listen to what is suggested or pay attention to your lover’s preferences prior.
• How, where, and when you give the gift matters. Create a gift giving and loving mood. You should never give a gift amid an argument or immediately after an argument unless you have cleared the air.
• The right packaging goes a long way. It makes the gift feel even more personal, especially if you accompany it with a sweet note.

 3. Take Activities Together

Did you know that taking on activities as a couple keeps the spark alive and strengthens your bond? So when you are meaning to learn something new. How about you ask your partner to tag along? Lately, you can learn anything online.

So enroll yourself in coding, cooking, dancing, or any other new activity you are mutually interested in and would genuinely enjoy. You can even start working out together if your partner is passionate about keeping fit. New activities together mean spending more quality time together, learning and bonding. Sounds like a win win situation, why don’t you try it out and see it pay off?

If you are both indoor people, binge watch movies together, do massages to each other and just enjoy each other’s company. Also, you can take a stroll round the neighbourhood, an early morning or night drive, run or cycle to nowhere in particular just talking as you enjoy the nice breeze. All these activities count as fun, thoughtful, and intimate thus genius ways to make your partner happy.

4. Verbalize Your Feelings and Be Consistent

Consistency should be the highlight of keeping your lover impressed. No one likes an on and off person, inconsistency is read as a red flag. Thus, you should stay true to your word and let your actions match your words. Unlike most people who find opening up a bit too vulnerable, do not be afraid to express your love to your partner. There is no shame in being a passionate lover.

Leave notes and letters for your partner they can find and know you were thinking about them. Make surprise visits, virtual dates, and keeping tabs on your partner when in a long distance relationship as a way to show your commitment.

Final Thoughts

Genuinely loving someone and being loved back right does not come easy, especially in the 21st century when most people are just wolves in sheep’s skin. So if you have found love, you are among the lucky few, give your best. You do not need riches to impress your partner; money cannot buy love or happiness anyway.  Stay creative with a healthy dose of communication so you can pull off the best dates despite your small budget. Remember, you are the secret ingredient to successfully keeping your partner impressed, not money. Just be smart and play your cards right.

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Are you looking to add the African style to your jewellery collection? Or maybe you are yet to own any African jewellery piece, how about you change that today?  This jewellery will absolutely elevate your look and make an outstanding fashion statement.

Today we explore everything you should know about Kenyan Jewellery so that you can understand the heritage of these pieces and have a world of options to choose from. But first, here is a brief history of this beautiful jewellery.

History of African Jewellery

Traditionally, jewellery was used to tell a leader from the common man or a wife from a spinster. In fact, archaeologists discovered jewellery in ancient African graves belonging to kings and chiefs. This jewellery was believed to convey different messages. To some hope, well-being, and wisdom while it portrayed supernatural protection, marriage, and status to others.

Different countries across Africa identified jewellery with deeper meaning, more than just mere adornment. In Algeria for example, the ouled nail women wore nail-spiked bracelets while dancing to ward off overly enthusiastic dancers. What a fascinating way to protect yourself, right?

Unlike the past, today most people love this jewellery to spice up their outfit and enhance beauty. Fashion enthusiasts and icons are slowly embracing this African jewellery. This is because it easily incorporates other elements making it stand out and way more personal than other jewellery.

In Kenya, the first jewellery has been dated back to 40,000 years ago in the Twilight Cave. It was handmade from ostrich shell beads. Ever since, different communities have different jewellery that reflect their vibrant culture and tell their story. Below are some of the Kenyan Communities alongside the kind of jewellery they adorned.

1. Kamba

The Kamba are part of the bantu community mostly situated in the eastern region of Kenya. They were popularly known as long distance traders. They would trade locally produced items like ivory, cattle, and millet with other communities then get beads in return.

They used these beads to make ornaments like necklaces, anklets, bracelets, and headbands. These multi-coloured pieces became increasingly popular overtime making Kamba jewellery distinguishable from other communities. The jewellery would either be embedded over leather skirts or kilts to enhance their beauty and that of the wearer.

   2. Maasai, Samburu, and Turkana

During the 19^th century, these communities were nomadic pastoralists that hand-made their jewellery using locally available raw materials like clay, wood, and bones. Over time, barter trade brought them glass beads which they use till date.

Women would hand make the ornaments and design the colours for the men, women, and children in the community. Different individuals would wear different beadwork structures and colours. You could tell someone’s age, social standing, marital status, and even whether they bore a girl or a boy from the jewellery they wore.

Each colour would mark an important aspect of different cultures, some were associated with cattle while others held other beliefs. Below are some of the general colours used to make jewellery and what they symbolized.

• Blue – Symbolizes energy and the sky.
• Red – Symbolizes unity, blood, and bravery. The Maasai would slaughter a cow when they met to signify unity.
• Orange – Represents hospitality. Visitors would be served cow milk from orange guards.
• Green – Stands for health and land.
• White – Marks peace, purity, and health.
• Black – Reflects the colour of the people and the struggles they endure.

People with a high social status wore the most colourful jewellery and vice versa. Sometimes, the Maasai women would design the colours and beadwork as a form of sending encoded messages. This was quite an interesting way of spreading gossip, don’t you think?

   3. Luo

During the 19^th century, the Luo community would import cowry shells and glass beads through trade with West Africa then use them to make ornaments. Other ornaments were still made from locally available resources like animal and wood products.

These ornaments range from waist aprons, armlets, wrist bangles, necklaces, and cowry shell belts. Like other communities, wearing these ornaments implied someone’s social and marital status.

  4. Giriama

The Giriama were the largest group among the Mijikenda community.  Amongst these people were skilled craftsmen who would make beautiful ornaments like chains, earrings, and bangles. These pieces are not only worn as charms but also to enhance beauty. The necklaces were made and worn by women from white, blue, and orange beads while the waist beads were made from white, yellow, red, and black barrel beads threaded onto sisal thread.

Fascinating Tips for Styling African Jewellery

African jewellery is trendy, fashionable, and flexible to different personalities and preferences. Hence, all you need to do is to figure out your style, own it and dress accordingly. Below are styling tips you should use to pull off African jewellery perfectly.

• It is Okay to Match African Jewellery with Other Metals

Silver jewellery pairs and complements African accessories beautifully. This is because silver has a neutral colour and reflective nature that rhymes with African jewellery. Keep your creative juices flowing and experiment different styles to find your best match.

• Keep it Simple

African jewellery tends to be colourful and bold so wear it with more laid back, one solid colour outfits to enhance your look. Avoid pairing African jewellery with busy patterns outfits. Stick neutral colours when wearing African accessories.

• Match Your Necklace With Your Neckline

Match your neckline with your necklace. Wear short necklaces with short necklines and vice versa. For off-shoulder, crewnecks, and strapless tops, experiment with statement pieces and layered chains as you find what suits you the most. A perfect necklace on the right neckline will do wonders to any look.

• One Bold Piece at a Time

If you are looking to make a great fashion statement, wear one statement piece at a time. This allows you to create a focal point that will bring out your look distinctly and elegantly. Avoid wearing multiple bold pieces at a go because they tend to completely overshadow you by tearing attention away from your look.

Final Thoughts

Whether you are looking for a piece that speaks to your personality, a statement piece to attend some grand occasion or a custom-made accessory, African jewellery is a great place to start looking. This jewellery is clearly priceless, beautiful, and trendy even over time. If you are yet to add it to your accessory in your wish list, what are you waiting for? It is absolutely worth your while.

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We have all had our own share of failed relationships or watched couples we genuinely considered goals
fall apart. In fact, this millennial generation is not pulling off relationships. Lately, people fall in love, get
married and get divorced shortly after. What does it really take to keep the romance alive?

Are you looking to keep your relationship interesting? We got you. Whether you are a long-distance
couple or live together, today we explore the different ways you can keep the spark from burning out.
But first, here are a few reasons why people fall apart in the first place.

Causes of a Lost Spark

Even the strongest bonds hit a bumpy road. Below are reasons people may start to drift and lose their
spark.

• Merged Identities
  The beauty of relationships is when two different unique personas come together to form a
  beautiful bond despite their differences. However, over time some individuals tend to lose their
  voice and end up being an “us” instead of a “me” entity.
  When you fuse identities, you lose yourself as well as the thrill of getting to know each other
  because the traits that attracted your partner in the first place begin to fade away. This brings
  about monotony in the relationship that eventually leads to drifting apart. So, try to spend time
  apart, have different friends, and take care of yourself to avoid losing yourself.
• Harboring Negative Emotions Like Anger
  Can you imagine harboring negative emotions like jealousy or anger towards your partner? Now
  imagine never sorting it out because you never spoke up. So frustrating, right? Holding back
  finally causes the over-enthusiastic feelings of love to crumble down to boredom, resentment,
  and dissatisfaction. How about you break down that tradition?
  Communication is key. Air your thoughts and emotions, whether good or bad, that way you
  cannot hold grudges against your partner that can potentially turn into resentment.

• Failing to Share Activities
  Whether you are in a long-distance relationship or not, spending quality time with your partner
  is the ultimate key to a happy relationship. Making time for someone makes them feel special
  and loved. If you barely make time for your partner despite your crazy schedule, your
  relationship is bound to stagnate and get monotonous. Eventually the once emotional high of
  love wears off.
• Lack of Effort
  You can tell you are losing the spark when no one is putting effort anymore. But worry not, you
  can still rekindle that flame. Not everyone is worth fighting for, so you need to define whether
  the best decision is to hold on or let go. You need to figure out whether the relationship is toxic
  or healthy, here is how you can tell.

Tells of a Healthy Vs Toxic Relationship
Love is like an addiction. The more you spend time together, the stronger the bond. However, there must
be balance. Most people tend to ignore red flags and end up in toxic relationships.
Others overlook a beautiful healthy relationship and go for narcissistic partners. But how do you tell it is
worth fighting for? A toxic relationship has controlling behavior and abusive tendencies while a healthy
relationship makes you the best version of yourself without unnecessary compromises. Choose wisely.

How to Keep a Relationship Interesting

Sometimes, just love is not enough to fuel a healthy relationship. It requires time, effort, commitment,
and consistency. All of which do not necessarily need a lot of money, just sentimental and thoughtful
deeds. Below are some tips that will come in handy if you are looking to rekindle a spark or keep your
relationship strong.

1. Try New Things Together
   Trying new activities together can make things exciting and fresh. You kill two birds with one
   stone by spending quality time with your partner while having fun.
   So yes, go for road trips and vacations, try out dance classes together, just do not be afraid to
   explore new possibly fun activities. If your partner is a jewelry enthusiast, go window shopping
   together. Fun activities are ideal bonding moments.
2. Have the Element of Surprise
   Keep the element of surprise alive in your relationship. It maintains a romantic, loving yet flirty
   environment making your relationship fun and exciting. Take your partner out for surprise dates,
   make them breakfast in bed, just show love, it does not have to be big gestures.
   Go the extra mile and browse through different jewelry stores to find the perfect piece for your
   lover. It could be a silver necklace, watch, earring, bracelet, or ring, whichever you think will
   fascinate your partner.

1. Be Thoughtful
   Is your partner having a bad day? How about you give them a nice body massage to help them
   relax? Or perhaps he or she just got a big promotion at work, get them a congratulatory jewelry
   accompanied by a note to show them you are proud.
   You can get silver matching jewelry sets as your anniversary gift or get customized silver jewelry
   as a birthday gift for your lover.This little deeds count as sweet and make your relationship
   thrive.
2. Speak Up
   Normalize saying “I love you” to your partner. Verbalize how you feel about them. Do not stop
   showing them how much they mean to you.
   Keep each other updated on what has been going on, especially when your relationship is long
   distance. Take pictures, make video calls, and schedule virtual dates so you can have time to
   catch up. Communication goes a long way. Check on each other regularly.

Other Unspoken Rules of Successful Healthy Relationships

We have all seen or experienced relationships that turned ugly and messy. Relationships are not as
complicated as most people make them seem. So long as the individuals involved have some kind of
agreement on their different perspectives, relationships can solely entail happiness and thrive too.
Let bygones be bygones. Sometimes it is better not to dig up the past. Do not go looking into exes, some
things are better left unknown. In case you have any kind of concern, do not shy away from voicing your
fears and worries so they can be put to rest.

Consistency is a charm. No one would appreciate a hot and cold person who is there one minute and has
ghosted them in the next. For a relationship to thrive, you need to consistently put effort and
commitment.

Love yourself first, your partner second. A wise man once said that you cannot fill water from an empty
cup. It is too much pressure to expect your partner to fill that void or make you feel complete. Take care
of yourself first so you can have the power to love another.

Final Thoughts
As much as love is the glue that holds a relationship together, it is not always enough. Respect,
consistency, commitment, and understanding are core values that hold down any healthy relationship. If
you are looking to keep your relationship interesting, try out these tips and see it all unfold beautifully.
What are you waiting for?

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Sapphire is indeed a precious, sentimental and valuable gemstone. Whether you are looking for the ideal gift for a September baby or for your friend or relative to symbolize your undying love for them, this beautiful stone is a worthwhile investment. Besides, who can resist the various beautiful shades of this coloured stone?

Today we explore the true beauty of the sapphire birthstone and share tips you can use while jewelry shopping to ensure you buy a genuine quality piece. But first, here is a brief history so that you can understand this gemstone even better.

The History of Sapphire

For centuries, this precious stone has been highly sought after by Greeks, Romans and other ancient people. From mining it to buying to stealing it from others, they would go to great lengths to attain this stone. They believed that it would protect them from harm and promote peace.

This September birthstone was also believed to have mystic powers. The Persians believed that sapphire stones were a reflection of the sky. The Greeks on the other hand, believed that they connected them to the heavens. This belief led people to use this stone in religious occasions because it represented the heavens. To date, some religions still refer to it as holy stone.

Unlike the past, sapphire now symbolizes royalty, sincerity, love, and romance. Jewelers now engrave it in rings, bracelets, necklaces, anklets, and earrings for jewelry to hold more sentimental value. Some people use it to pop the big “will you marry me?” question, others use it to celebrate friendship while others use it to show off class and sophistication.

Styling the Blue Sapphire Stone

This September birthstone is best embedded in silver metal because silver is neutral in nature and will beautifully reflect the blue hue of this gem. If you are looking to stand out while wearing this stone, here are a few tips you can use.

• Let sapphire be the focal point of your outfit. This blue gem shines best when worn with complimentary more laid back colours. Opt for more neutral colours to allow the sapphire to pop in the background and give your look a luxurious touch.

You do not necessarily have to be limited to just black, white, or grey. A colour different from the blue hue of this gem, just not as bright, will elevate your look beautifully.

• Wear it with simple outfits. Whether you are looking to attend a formal or informal setting, sapphire will stand out when you pair it with simple clothes and accessories. Do not pair it with other coloured gemstones to avoid drawing attention away from this rare stunning gem. Instead, you can wear more than one sapphire accessory at a go.
• Get your creative juices flowing and do not be afraid to experiment. If you are unsure what goes with what, try out different combinations to find what best suits you.
• Consider the occasion. Wear more understated sapphire necklace while attending a formal setting and a statement sapphire piece for casual events like parties and weddings.

The True Authenticity of the Sapphire Birthstone

Sapphire existing in many shades is a beautiful aspect. However, it can be difficult and confusing to tell when someone is selling you a fake. Are you worried you do not know how you can spot a fake from real sapphire? Here are a few factors to put into consideration while shopping for this gemstone to ensure you do not get conned.

• The Clarity of the Stone

Sapphires are naturally formed by tiny bits of matter and so they have inclusions. Inclusions are distinctively different particles inside the gem that do not match the general shade. Look out for spots and blemishes in a piece, if you see these flaws then it is definitely sapphire.

• Look Out for Air Bubbles

Before making any purchase, look whether there are any air bubbles inside the piece. Overturn it if you have to, just be keen and inspect it thoroughly. If indeed the piece has air bubbles then the sapphire is not real.

Do the Breathing Test

Breathe into the piece so that it fogs up. Natural gemstones clear up within one or two seconds. If it takes five seconds while the fog is still clearing away, then the sapphire is not real.

• Do the Light Test

Put the sapphire in a dark room and shine a flashlight onto it. If the sapphire is real, it will only reflect the colour similar to its general appearance. If it is glass, then the reflection will have other colours other than the one on the piece.

The Best Sapphire Quality

Are you looking to buy the best quality sapphire? But how do you know what good quality looks like? We got you. Here are a few tells you can use to assess the quality of sapphire.

• Color– This precious stone has many different shades in different tones. A moderate to highly saturated tone implies that the birthstone is of high quality.
• Cut– A well-cut sapphire is perfectly symmetrical so that it can sparkle and elevate any look beautifully.
• Clarity- When it is a high quality gem, the inclusions should not be visible to the naked eye.

Add Sapphire to Your Jewelry Collection

It does not matter whether you are a September baby or just a mere jewelry enthusiast. Sapphire is a must have accessory for anyone looking for a beautiful, elegant and priceless piece. If you do not yet own any sapphire accessory, then it is about time you add it to your jewelry bucket list. You are definitely missing out.

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Self-gifting is the ultimate form of self-love. So, if there is a certain jewelry piece you keep eyeing, make a point to get it and see how good it makes you feel about yourself. Besides, imagine finally getting gifts you actually like and adore, how amazing would that be?

Have you never bought jewelry for yourself before? Are you wondering how to go about it? Worry not. Today we explore the beauty of self-gifting and everything you need to know while getting yourself silver jewelry to help you make informed decisions.

The Beauty of Self-Gifting Silver Jewelry

Some people regard buying presents for yourself as selfish while in fact, it is a form of self-care and has loads of benefits. Below are some of benefits of buying yourself jewelry:

• Self-Pampering

The old saying, “You cannot pour from an empty cup,” is undeniably accurate. You come first, it is only fair that you show yourself love before giving others. Do not hesitate to pamper and buy yourself with the jewelry you desire.

• Get Better Gifts

Whether it is a ring, silver bracelet, earring, or necklace you want, no one knows you better than you know yourself. You know your size, tastes, and preferences best. Hence, you are guaranteed to get yourself a thoughtful gift you will love and appreciate.

• Build on Your Jewelry Collection

Good jewelry elevates a look by making it seem elegant and classy. Have you never owned a statement silver necklace or silver earrings before? Then it is about time to add it to your collection.Shop for statement pieces to attend special flashy occasions and go-with-everything pieces that are flexible with any outfit and occasion.

When to Gift Yourself Jewelry

Most people have a hard time justifying a purchase especially when it is not a gift giving holiday and end up never giving themselves any gift in a lifetime. Below is a short list of ideal occasions to buy yourself jewelry to inspire you to treat yourself once in a while.

• On Valentines

February 14^th is a month of love, whether you are in a relationship or single. Do not get left out, get yourself a stunning piece of silver jewelry as you give yourself love.

•  To Celebrate Milestones

Have you finally landed a promotion at work? Or perhaps you are finally graduating after years of study. Get yourself a statement piece to symbolize that moment of transition of your life. You can even get it customized with a congratulatory note to yourself so you can always remember the great milestone.

• Birthdays

Get customized birthday jewelry for yourself. You can get gemstones marking your birthday month engraved in a ring or necklace or a birthday message on a bracelet to remember by.

• Personal Wins and Reminders

Have you finally quit a bad habit? Maybe you quit smoking, drinking, or got out of a toxic relationship. Why not celebrate this brave with an elegant piece of silver jewelry? From a ring, bracelet, earring, or a neck piece, find a piece you can wear daily as a reminder of how far you have come.

• Whenever you Can Afford It

Are you having a bad day? Get jewelry to make it better. Are you having a good day? Get jewelry to make it even greater. Treat yourself, you deserve it. You do not necessarily have to wait for a special occasion.

Tips to Consider Before Self-Gifting Silver Jewelry

If you have never bought yourself jewelry before, it can be a bit confusing and disorienting at first. Therefore, there are certain factors you need to have in mind for a smooth and worthwhile purchase. Here are a few tips to consider:

1. Do Your Research

Browse through different stores and online platforms as you familiarize yourself with the piece you want and the approximate price it would cost. Compare through different designs of the jewelry before you decide on what you would like. That way, you find a good store with the best quality and price for sure.

   2. Know Your Style and Size

Are you feminine or sporty and masculine? Are you always attending casual or formal occasions? Consider your style before identifying what jewelry you want.

If your jewelry collection is basic, and you are looking to explore then let nothing hold you back. At the end of the day, the goal is to look amazing in comfortable jewelry that compliments your features and fashion sense.

If you are buying online, know your size prior. Measure yourself using an online guide or have a professional jeweler take your measurements.

  3. Save and Set a Budget

Have a realistic budget on how much you are willing to spend for jewelry. The piece you get should make you feel good about yourself. You should not feel drained or in debt for spending a large sum of money. Get a piece you can afford.

Prices tend to go up during festive seasons like Christmas, valentines, and Easter because everyone is looking to buy jewelry for their loved one. Instead, aim to save some money by buying your jewelry during low seasons or when there are discount offers like on black Fridays.

  4. Read the Jeweler’s Policies

Ensure you buy your jewelry from a credible source to be guaranteed it is not fake or of poor quality. Read through the after sale policies. Do they provide regular cleaning for the piece you buy? Do they have resizing services in case you got the size wrong? Go for the jeweler with the best deal all factors considered.

Get Yourself that Silver Jewelry

We are accountable to our own happiness, self-gifting is neither selfish nor mean. It is self-empowering and a true form of self-care. Plan, save, make a budget, and start shopping. What are you waiting for? Browse through the different jewelers and get yourself that piece you have always wanted.

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We have all seen that friend whose engagement ring refuses to come off or one that keeps losing the ring every now and then.

Are you wondering how exactly you can get the ring size right? We have compiled a list of everything you need to know when figuring out your partner’s ring size to help you find the ideal engagement ring.

Techniques to Use When Measuring a Ring Size

Different people have different techniques to figure out a good fit. Whether homemade, discreet, or with your partner’s knowledge, we have curated a short list that will come in handy.

1. How to Secretly Know Your Partner’s Ring Size

Below are ways you can secretly discover your partner’s ring size:

• Estimate with the Standard Sizes

The average ring size for women is 5-8 while that for men is 8-13, the most common one being 10. Use this to estimate your mate’s ring size.

• Borrow One of Her Rings

Get one of your girlfriend’s rings and take it to your jeweler so they can help identify the size. Make sure you are aware what hand the ring goes for better clarity. A dominant hand tends to be bigger compared to the other one.

If your girlfriend is right-handed, then the left hand is smaller and vice versa..

• Be Sneaky

Most women are hyper aware of their belongings and sometimes secretly taking your partner’s ring may prove difficult. Instead, wait for her to fall asleep and measure her left ring finger using a ribbon or string.  Take the measurement to an expert for clarification.

Trace one of her rings on a piece of paper.  Draw a couple of inner and outer circles of the ring to get a definite sketch. A jeweler will easily estimate the radius based on the circumference of the finger.

 Use soap or wax to make an imprint of one of her rings that can be used by an expert to give a rough estimate. Remember to clean off the residues that may be left on the ring to avoid arousing suspicion. Only return the ring to the jewelry box if it is clean and dry.

• Ask a Friend or Relative For Help

Do not hesitate to ask your girlfriend’s friends and family for help. They may already know her ring size or would help you figure it out. Even better, they may convince your girlfriend to tag along ring window shopping for fun and you can have what fits her professionally sized later.

You get to kill two birds with one stone. They not only figure out a good ring size but also her preferences, ring shape, and setting for an ideal ring. Get a trusted friend that can keep a secret so that you do not kill the surprise element.

  2. Determining the Ring Size with Your Partner’s Help

Having your girlfriend tell you her ring size is considerably easier compared to when figuring it out discreetly. If she does not know her size either, then use a ribbon or paper to measure then infer our ring size guide to estimate her ring size.

Measure several times in between the day then do an average of the different results to get the most accurate one. If you are in between sizes, always choose the large size. You could also get a professional to do the measurements for the best results.

What is a Perfect fit?

A comfortable fitting ring does not rotate on your finger, hardly comes off easily but it is also not too tight. Different fits exist for different finger shapes. Some people have large knuckles while others have long slender fingers hence, they are suited by different types and settings of rings.

If you have long slender fingers, then go for rings with a wide band width preferably those with a large center piece. They will balance out your features beautifully. If you have short thick fingers, then narrower band widths with an elongated stone shape will suit you.

Get a bigger fitting ring, utmost 2 measurements up, for large knuckles so that you wear it more easily. It should have a large stone to make tighter past the knuckles and to ensure it does not slip out.

We advise getting rings with multiple bands for narrower fingers whose size fluctuates over time. They are mostly thicker near the palm and get narrower toward the end of the nail hence they will not come off as easily.

Things to Consider When Measuring a Ring Size

The size of a finger varies. It changes depending on the time of day, the temperature, or weather. The most accurate measurements are during the evening rather than in the morning when the fingers shrink.

Ensure that the fingers are neither too cold nor too hot. They should be in standard room temperature when you measure them.

The width of the band directly affects how well a ring fits. The bigger the bandwidth the more the ring feels tighter and vice versa. As you compare sizes using rings, use a ring of similar band width as the one you intend to get and you are assured to get the size right.

Final Thoughts

What are you waiting for? Take that leap of faith, go shopping and find a ring that your soulmate will adore. Whether they help you or if you intend to surprise your mate, this article will help you find the right ring size smoothly. Browse through our various collections and pick what appeals to you.

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If you have a big collection of jewelry pieces, then you know how taxing it can be to organize such a sizable collection. To ensure that you don’t go through the trouble, we are here to offer some painstaking ideas for storing your sterling silver jewelry. So, (please) read on.

• Separate your jewelry – when we talk of a jewelry collection, we refer to earrings, necklaces, bracelets, rings, and more. Each of these pieces requires special storage to minimize damage and also help you find the pieces easily. For example, rings and earrings are some of the smallest pieces, and putting them in one place will make it harder for you to locate them when you need them. To save time, and still keep your jewelry in perfect condition, keep everything separate.
• Keep the jewelry in plain sight – no one wants to be caught in the last-minute hunt for jewelry. So, to effortlessly enliven your look with the perfect accessories, ensure that all your jewelry pieces are visible and easy to find. Drawer compartments and jewelry organizers are perfect options that will keep your jewelry safe and easily visible.
• Keep necklaces on hooks –  the simplest way to store your necklaces would be by attaching decorative hooks on your wall or dressing area then hanging them individually.

Why? Here is why. Keeping your necklaces on hooks averts jumbled messes of the chains and pendants. Placing them individually on the hooks or a hanging jewelry organizer will also make it easy for you to choose what you want to wear.

• Keep them in a cool dry place – in as much as sterling silver can last for decades without losing its sparkle, how you store your jewelry can jeopardize that. Sterling silver can tarnish easily if not stored in proper conditions. Jewelry enthusiasts and jewelry sellers’ will agree that the best place to keep your fine jewelry would be in a cool and dry place.

To conclude, sterling silver jewelry is an investment. They can be quite costly and because of that, you need to be extra careful with them. After all, the longer they serve you the better it is for you, right?

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